Ramblings from my last day in L.A…

Just some more random stuff - reflecting back on L.A., upcoming cross country road trip, and a mention of some cool websites.

What do you guys want to hear about? Membership sites? yayFOOD? Copywriting? My travels?

I’m sure I’ll be posting more about travel, just because that’s what I love to do… but if there’s something else you want to know about, let me know. I never really made a clear purpose for this site… just kind of randomly said whatever was on my mind the entire time.

I guess I’m just wondering because it seems like everyone has a different opinion. Some people in my mastermind say I should take a more authoritative tone (which isn’t really my style)… but at the same note, I wonder if I should provide more value instead of always just babbling.

It seems kind of weird to flip between getting personal and going Internet Marketing…

Give me your $.02. :)

(And don’t tell me to have two blogs, por favor!)

Ooo, that reminds me - Jaime and I are making a travel blog for when we go through South America. Our posts from our personal blogs will redirect to that site. We did a fun photo shoot with her ridiculously talented friend, Andrea to get pictures for the blog theme. You can see them here (they’re grouped with the other photo shoot pictures).

But anyway, here’s the video:


September 25 - Mark It Down…

I was just going over my goals again, and realized I knocked out a lot of the things I wanted to achieve by September 25 - my 26th birthday.

(Lots of amazing Internet Marketers with my birthday actually - Gregg Gillies Bill Glazer, Feldo Nartapura (He isn’t known yet, but he will be! Met him at my Toastmaster’s, he asked me for a few tips, and he’s going full-speed-ahead! VERY impressive!), Yanik Silver, and Chris Vendilli.

And when I was at Laguna Beach last year on that random trip… that entrepreneur dude had my birthday, too.)

Anyway, I digress - the goals - I’m ECSTATIC that they’re coming to fruition. I’m also really looking forward to everything else I’m going to make happen this year (not by my birthday, but this year):

I’ve decided (after 2.5 years!) that I’m finally ready for a serious relationship. I’m actually really looking forward to it. :)

I’m also looking forward to doing a lot of huge things with my favorite charity - more on that soon. =)

My book is going to be a NY Times bestseller this year… I’ll be getting my NLP practitioner’s license (not for mind control - just because I think psychology is fascinating)…  and I can’t wait to just travel, travel, travel.

Materially, I want an Aston Martin made into a convertible, a “green” mansion in California - something like this one (this is the only “dream house” I’ve found, and I’ve looked a LOT), and an American Express Centurion card.

Hrmm… I think when I get home, I’m going to type up all my goals for my blog. Seems like the right thing to do. =)


11 more days in L.A.!!

Just made a quick blog post on what I’m up to, a great book I’ve read, and more…

Here were the photo shoot pictures I was talking about. =)


A nerdy little post…

The silliest things make me happy. :)

(…and by “windowsill”, I mean “window”. ;))


What I’m up to…

Grrrr, again with the bird’s nest, but I made this post at the same time as the last one.

To prove to the world that my hair is normal, here’s a picture from my photo shoot :):

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Thank you for indulging me. Here’s my latest video:

 


Stealth Traffic Tools

Geeez, my hair does not look this bird’s-nesty in regular light, I swear!

Anyway, I just found this awesome program and wanted to talk about it:

You can find it right here: http://tinyurl.com/6lk6dg

(And like I said in the video… I’d ONLY talk about it if I thought I was helping. I don’t like shameless affiliate promotions on my blog. :))


Cancun Recap…

So I’m sitting here on my plane – free upgrade to first class, by the way :) - and decided to make a new blog entry.

Cancun was absolutely AMAZING.

It was the best trip ever. Jaime and I went for 2 weeks, and the trip was broken up into 3 parts. We got to one hotel for a few days where we partied like rockstars, then we went to Club Med for a seminar for a week, and then we went to another hotel where we just relaxed and settled down.

I’ll forever hold the trip as one of my best experiences ever, but here are some of my main takeaways:

1. Intuition trumps logic every time. I don’t know why I’ve fought so hard against this for such a long time, but it’s really true. Whenever I go with my gut instinct, things work out far better than what I “think” should happen.It’s true in business, with relationships, with everything.

It used to be hard for me to justify things on emotion - “But it just feels right” - but I don’t care anymore. And I feel like most successful people agree, based on the conversations I’ve had and listened to.

2. I will never again say I’m not sure about “spirituality”. Some of the experiences I had over the weeks were absolutely mind-boggling. The way things came together for me, the experiences I went through, and the growth that came out of two weeks time… just incredible. There’s no way there isn’t something bigger out there, it’s just not possible.

3. Relaxation is AWESOME. I didn’t have the Internet for a week at Club Med (there was a storm that blew it out) and my air card wasn’t working, so I had to learn how to relax.

That might sound easy, but I’m normally a very go-go-go person. In fact, I even wrote down what relaxation felt like in my journal. :) But I really realized on the trip that not only is relaxation a fun feeling, but when you actually stop and take time to THINK and LISTEN TO YOURSELF – that’s when everything comes together.

So many successful people say to “center yourself”, or “meditate”, or “quiet the noise”, and I never wanted to stop long enough to do that. It’s absolutely mindboggling, though, once you do it… how much you just inherently know.

The more I learn, the more I realize that the path to success is incredibly counterintuitive. (Counterintuitive to logic, that is – definitely not counterintuitive to your intuition.)

Guess that’s it for now. I did learn some good business stuff, too, but I just shared the much more important part. :)


Too much fun for my own good…


Finally doing it…

After a trillion tries of this video thing, I decided I’m going to look like a dunce no matter what. And I’m okay with that:


The power of masterminds…

I’m in a few masterminds, and I adore them all. Leveraging the expertise of other people = incomparable.

I made this “How To Run A Mastermind” checklist a year or so ago, and completely forgot about it. Nathan Gilder asked me for it today, and when I gave it to him, he said it was pretty valuable. Hopefully it helps someone else too:

How To Effectively Run A Mastermind

-Decide on type of MasterMind (supportive or paid)

-Determine purpose

-Figure out who you want in the MasterMind – what types of qualifications do you want people to have, how much diversity do you want, and how many people.

-Find members. There are a lot of ways to do this. Some ideas are to ask people, place ads, go on forums, look at social organizations, work, ryze.com, Yahoo! Groups, meetup.com, or save your time and use the “Search” function on MasterMind Zone.

-When interviewing people, make sure that people exhibit certain qualities. For example, you want to make sure that you have people that are “take action” types, and not people who are the negative “victim” type. You also should look for people who are eager to improve.

-Survey members, decide what everyone can bring to the table

-Decide how long each session should last, allotting for socializing and break time. Break it down by how long each members gets to talk (including the time that they receive feedback). It is very imperative to stick to this schedule, or people get frustrated that meetings consistently run too long, and there is not a clear focus.

-Decide when and where to meet

-Either make a leader, or opt to rotate leadership. Somebody needs to be accountable for watching time, relaying messages if people miss a meeting, and contacting people if there’s a change.

-Set rules and goals during the first meeting. One common rule is that everything said during the meeting needs to be confidential. Other rules are to not be able to shoot down ideas, have an open mind, be absent or late too frequently, or not achieve states goals consistently. Decide on consequences for rules. Everybody should also identify a long-term goal on the first meeting.

-Encourage people to share “brain food” – books, music, movies, quotations, websites, etc.

-Set timer as each person talks, carefully making sure that everybody talks only as long as they have set for them.

-When people give feedback, it needs to be brief and to the point so that everybody can give feedback according to time allotments. Sometimes feedback won’t be needed though, as a person might decide to simply ask to be held accountable for something by the next meeting.

-Be the one to go the extra mile. Someone has to lead before others will follow.

-At the end of the meeting, ask if anybody needs accountability until the next meeting (perhaps they need a call from another member to keep them in check).

-In future meetings, make sure that everybody gives a brief update of their progress from last meeting.

-Review rules periodically so that everyone follows. The biggest “crime” usually is people talking past their allotted time period.

-Once established, everyone has to vote unanimously on new members.


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